The old man

She has a meeting every Wednesday morning. It is not a business meeting, exactly, more like group therapy. It is important to her. It is an obligation that she wants in her life.

She’s compulsive about punctuality. She knows exactly how long it will take to get from her house to the meeting place, including her stop for a drive-thru sugar-free vanilla iced latte. There is another route, and if she were the type to suffer easily from boredom, she would probably alternate week to week.

But she prefers the blue highway to the main highway. She turns onto the road less traveled at the wine barn. Farmland now for ten miles or so. Often she sees the kind of wildlife that you can see in fields. A coyote in the hedges. A real partridge family. An owl, late returning from its night stalking.

And this old man. He is always walking beside the road, just about the place where the speed limit goes from 50 to 40 mph for no apparent reason.

All summer and fall, he walked from point unknown to point unknown, as far as she is concerned. Probably it took her weeks to even become aware of him, like they say you don’t respond to junk mail until the twelfth mailing. But she is aware now.

He is old but robust enough to take this walk from somewhere to wherever. He has a walking stick but usually carries it parallel to the ground, like a weapon. Maybe it is just to ward of marauding teenagers with rings in their noses and brows.

He wears bib overalls. She thinks he may have been a farmer in this valley for many, many years. Or else he’s a California retiree who has purchased a designer farm-ette and merely likes to look the part.

One Wednesday morning, she smiled at him as she drove passed, not quite down to the 40 mph reduced speed. He smiled back. The next Wednesday morning, he waved. She waved back. Now she looks for him, like she looks for the latte stand and her turn-off at the wine barn.

She is prone to worry, so he has added a new arrow to that particular quiver. Does he have a family that would miss him if he went walking one morning and never came back? Did he once have a loyal dog, an old Shep who died one night in his sleep under the porch? Does he walk the road on any day but Wednesday? And not unlike the tree in the forest, if she’s not there to see him is he really there at all?

He is part of the minutiae that makes up her day. And she’d be a little more lost without him.

7 Responses to “The old man” »»

  1. Comment by M.Sam | 12/31/09 at 5:31 pm

    nick knack paddy-whack give the dog a bone – this old man came rolling home.

  2. Comment by Mary | 12/31/09 at 8:54 pm

    I love this. There’s an elderly couple I used to see out walking every day, rain or shine, when I took the kids to school. The woman is tall and has long white hair, she strides out ahead. The man is hunched over and walks slower, with a cane. She waits for him at the crosswalks. I made up a whole story about them in my head. When the house next door to theirs burned down, some windows in their garage got broken and I didn’t see them for a few weeks, and I was very worried. Then they were back.

    Sadly, our morning commute time has changed and I haven’t seen them in a long time. Their house hasn’t been for sale, though, so hopefully they’re still there and still walking.

  3. Comment by Donna | 01/01/10 at 1:20 am

    I have got to get out of this place, and move to somewhere that old folks still walk on the side of the road. And people like you notice them.

  4. Comment by Jan L | 01/01/10 at 10:59 am

    This was a great way to start the year. I’d read a book that began this way and be upset to have to put it down.

  5. Comment by ellen | 01/03/10 at 12:57 pm

    This is a great way to start the new year (HAPPY NEW YEAR). I would read it to. So is it???

  6. Comment by .303 Bookworm | 01/04/10 at 6:30 pm

    It’s prose like this that keeps me coming back to your site. Well done. And, please, more.

  7. Comment by Quiana | 01/06/10 at 3:48 pm

    I have one too.

    Spanish Lessons Guy. When I used to live in Green Lake, I used to run every day. During the spring and summer, when the weather was good, I’d always run past an elderly gentleman in a vest and fishing cap. His vest advertised “Spanish Lessons”. Sometimes he would be strolling, but often perched on a bench in conversation with a truly amazing swath of society. Young people, old people, kids, the homeless. It was pretty awesome. I’d always nod or wave and he’d tip his hat. (Having a hat tipped at you in this day and age is pretty awesome.)

    When the weather was good and I didn’t see him, I would fret. But he seems to be going strong, he’s just not out as long as he used to be, and I probably miss a lot him now that I don’t run every day.

    Seeing his dedication and productivity gave me such wonderful ideas as to what to do with myself as an older person. It also inspired a love of Seattle and the people who live here.

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